Top tips for flying with family

Monday, 06 December 2021 08:48 AM

There’s no doubt that the idea of a family holiday is extremely appealing. Picture building sandcastles together in the blissful sunshine, seeing who can scope out the most animals in the bush, and long, leisurely afternoons spent splashing around in the pool. That is, until you realise that you actually have to get to your destination first.

The reality is that flying with infants, toddlers, children, and even teens in tow comes with its own unique set of challenges and concerns for even the most experienced and laid-back parents among us! But fear not. Whether you’re travelling short-haul or long-haul, here are a few handy tips to keep the kids happy and entertained so you can successfully hold onto your sanity!

Come prepared

Be sure to check the catering policies before travelling and prepare ahead for the minute your child tells you they’re hungry or thirsty. If you’re travelling with more than one child, remember to avoid getting snacks or drinks in different flavours to avoid fights about who gets what.
Along with lots of yummy food and beverages, also try to pack some new toys or activities that won’t take up too much space in your carry-on luggage – preferably items that will hold your child’s attention for longer than a few minutes..
Of course, there’s no shame in putting your usual screentime limitations on pause for the duration of your flight. It can be a lifesaver to allow your little one to play a few pre-downloaded educational games when they get fussy, unsettled or bored. Just don’t forget to switch to flight mode!
Finally, remember to pack a change of clothing. Not only for the kids, but for you too. Every parent knows, a nappy-related catastrophe or a spilled cup of juice always seems to happen at the worst possible moment.

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Book your flights strategically

Nobody knows your kids, their routines, and their moods better than you do. Forget about worrying too much about prices. Be sure to keep this knowledge in mind when booking your flights to help ensure a more streamlined travel experience for all.
For example, if you know that your child is particularly grumpy in the mornings, try to book an afternoon or evening flight instead. If your little one still naps during the day, it’s also a great idea to book your flight so that you’re in the air when naptime rolls around. After all, the more your child sleeps, the more pleasant and less stressful the journey will be.

Keep ear pain to a minimum

Enduring that dreadful (and sometimes painful) ear-popping sensation definitely isn’t a pleasant way to begin a flight. Unfortunately, children have particularly narrow Eustachian tubes, which often means this sensation is amplified. This is especially true if the child in question is struggling with a cold, has an ear infection, or has swollen adenoids.


Luckily, there are some steps you can take to help keep your kids’ ear pain (and the resultant outbursts) to a minimum. For babies and toddlers, the best course of action is to pop them on the breast or give them a bottle or a dummy shortly before take-off. This will help to keep those Eustachian tubes as wide open as possible. For the older kids, it’s a good idea to encourage them to yawn regularly when the sensation arises, or to chew some chewing gum for a similar effect.

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Show the crew some appreciation

Most ground and cabin crew are very accommodating towards parents flying with kids and will go out of their way to alleviate some of the stress. Be sure to show your appreciation for their efforts, and don’t be afraid to ask for assistance should you need it.

Get moving

Expecting a toddler or a young child to sit still and be quiet for hours on end simply isn’t realistic. Our little ones need stimulation, as well as a way in which to expel some energy. With that in mind, don’t hesitate to get out of your seats to take a walk up and down the aisles every now and again. This simple bit of exercise could mean the difference between a tantrum and a relatively tranquil flight experience for all.


Ultimately, try not to get too worked up about the idea of travelling with family. Even if it doesn’t quite go as planned, you can take comfort in the knowledge that the experience is temporary, and that you’ll be landing at your destination of choice soon enough where endless opportunities for family fun and bonding await. Happy, stress-free holidays!

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